Shirley says,

“My anxiety has decreased so much and my ability to get into my mind and focus through things that were once very painful are now very manageable. I never thought I could stop the “never ending thoughts” of my ADHD —to calm down and focus, but now I can and I do.

I’ve made great progress not only with physical healing (stretching my right shoulder) but emotional and spiritual healing as well.

Today I can confidently say I may not know the answers to this journey called life, but I am looking forward to the adventure that awaits me. A weight has lifted and I am allowed to be a dreamer, to be me and me is good! I feel the breath flow through my whole body and my mind clear and I see the path, as a shedding of my old skin, and look forward to walking down it. I am so grateful to feel my life finally awaken and feel excited to actually be present and live it—thank you.” — SM

It is that time of year we are SO excited for and often a time of year we can feel overwhelmed by all that there is to do!  Notice how you are riding that wave? Personally, I am using all my skills to stay upright on my board! Having a lot of wood energy, in the Chinese 5-Element system, spring is a season that pushes me hard.  

So here’s a bit of authentic beauty and inspiration for the season!  Maybe just the reminder you need to take the risk necessary to bloom.

I look out the window and I see February. I look inside my body-mind-heart and I see and feel February. This can be a hard month for us as individuals and collectively. In our region it is usually the final month of winter and often one of unrelenting cloud cover, drizzle and dreariness.

I feel it is best summed up by the movements of my cat family: nap, come to the door, stand in doorway, sniff, turn around and go back to napping. Frequent breaks in napping taken for feeding. Then back to napping. They look up at me often as if to ask, “when will outside be FUN again, when will the birds come back to the garden?”

Happy New Year! The dawning of a new year can be a time of renewal and dreaming, a time to clear the slate from the year before and begin again.  It can also be a time of challenge, stuckness, or a continual efforting to face a life that we are not thriving in.

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What really landed with me, this month, was the idea that my energy, as the foundation of my health, was like a flame. And that flame lights up, barely flickering some days or blazing on another, representing my day to day, life-force energy. This flame is also impacted by 100’s if not 1,000’s of factors internal and external.

It is also what feeds my entire life, my core energetic essence—this flame— it is what I am solely in charge of caring for. Perhaps its the shape and the awareness of my inner fire that most impacts my ability to regulate. To successfully rise to meet the challenges, stresses, or pains that come across my path, I need a foundation of good, stable energy.

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For many of us, we live in a near constant state of sympathetic dysregulation. And its not that our lives are literally threatened, but it’s that thing called STRESS that makes our bodies believe we are under threat of life and limb. And this stressed out, freaked out, overwhelmed state is called, dysregulation. You may be on the edge of breakdown all the time, unable to sleep through the night—tired all the time, irritable, tense, unable to make simple decisions.

So the gap, or the mindful moment of pause, is your chance to reconnect, drop into stillness, do whatever it is you do technique wise, to self-soothe and find CALM. This calm or reconnection brings the nervous system into a state called regulation. Yep you guessed it, this regulated state of harmony, is what we are aiming for.

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Let’s talk about gaps…..I always love a good unpacking of a word, idea or concept.

Gaps are literally openings. If you’ve ever ridden the Tube in London you hear the announcer say, each time the door opens and closes, “Mind the gap” which is a reminder not to step in the hole, or gap, between the train itself and the platform.

Ok got it, don’t fall in the gap. Bad idea. But here we are exploring the goodness of the gap. The reason we may want to fall into it.

So a gap can be a few minutes between meetings, it can be a year between high school and college, it can even be a breath or two between tasks, events or happenings. Some gaps are obvious, and some aren’t.

I have heard many people say in recent weeks that they are feeling some fear and anxiety about winter, unsure if their better mental health will now decline, or if the lack of go, go, go outdoor activity will leave them anxious and disconnected. I can relate…

I answered the call of my body’s pain by seeking out a physical therapist and not your run of the mill PT, this practitioner is more what I’d call a body-talker.  I didn’t know it was what I needed at the time of my first visit with her, but she had a way (technique & presence) to calm my nervous system so deeply that what came to the surface as our time together unfolded, was much more than the remnants of that skiing accident.  

It wasn’t until the second session that the story of the “pain” my body had been holding all these years, revealed itself to me.  The trauma of my 18-year old self flooded back to me as I lay there on the treatment table. 

During my 5-day Roots of Compassion silent Meditation retreat I came in direct contact with what it means to re-member. In Latin remember means to be mindful. This poem above was read each night by everyone in our group and were the only words we uttered each of the five days, as we walked and sat and ate through 9+ hours of practice a day.